And today, I realized that Adam Sandler was not just a damn hillbilly who made crap movies that idjit Amrikans watched and giggled at.
PRESCRIPTUM: ** SPOILER ALERT** The whole damn post is a spoiler. So if you wanna watch the movie, Don’t read the post… (As if any one reads here )
Reign over me is a movie that could have been so bad in so many ways. It could have moralized and talked about how psychiatric help is essential or even necessary for people who deal with sorrow. It could have been an exercise in the futile system that exists now in the United States – The Pill Culture. Just solve away your problems by taking pills, by spending an hour a week with a therapist. (BTW this is catching on in India too).
The movie is not about disorders, its not about being hyperactive or having ADD or being bipolar or being depressed or having Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Its on one level the crude need for society to make its individuals confirm to a standard – Make people fit into blocks. She is a prostitute so she was abused when she was a kid. He is depressed, well get him some anti-depressants fer crying out loud and so on.
Maybe it shouldn’t be about that. Maybe it should be about personal responsibility. Let people heal in the way they are most comfortable with. Maybe valium is not the solution for depression – Maybe all that is needed is a good bunch of people who surround you most of the time and keep you cheered up. Yes, its not a quick fix chemical solution – BUT maybe that is just it. Life cannot be a quick fix solution – Spend an hour of therapy with some dude and expect to solve why your marriage is failing or why your wife is having an affair. Nah..I am not sure it works like that.
BUT who am I in this entire equation to tell anyone anything.
P.S: Happy Diwali to all ya folks out there. The first silent Diwali in a long fucking time. I am loving it.
